WE'RE NOT GOING BACK

EP 89 - HOW NOT TO BE A WIMPY WOMAN


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Wimpy is defined as... weak, cowardly, feeble!

Feel you’ve been any of these things in your life, maybe in certain relationships or

situations and you feel bad, or maybe even mad about it?

 

I truly do not believe we as women are any of these things, ever!!  There come times when we must make certain

choices, which is very different.

 

So if this is you, stop feeling bad… you did your best with what you were dealing with at

that time. We do our best, always.

 

Sometimes beating ourselves up is even worse than the actual event, and it does not serve us

whatsoever to have those thought!

 

A better thought could be “it was a CHOICE I made”, and OWN it!

At times we may think we allowed ourselves to be abused or mistreated in some way, but is

that really true?

Did you have other better choices and you just chose to take the “abuse” or where you being

wise under you current circumstances?

 

When we tell ourselves we had no choice, we continue to feel we were powerless.

But we did have a choice, and we chose the best we could at that time… that is so much

more empowering a thought!

 

Was there conflict in the family and you chose peace, but felt like you were cowardly?

No, you chose peace, and maybe not just for you but for others too.

 

If we have the thought “I was wimpy”, your subconscious will believe that and you don’t

want that going forward.  You can think
instead “I was WISE”… “I am BEING wise”!

 

Let’s change it up, we are not wimpy women, we are wise women!!

 

In any situation you find yourself in now, know you’re doing your best given the

situation. If there was a better choice you would take make it, but you are
choosing the best you can and taking not just yourself but also others in to
account.

 

Be proud of the choices you are making, you are a woman wise beyond words, my friend. Own

it.

  

IMPORTANT:

If you are in an abusive

relationship and you don’t feel safe,

call the National Domestic

Violence Hotline!

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and

200+ through interpretation service 

800-799-7233

OR text START to 88788

Learn more

 

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WE'RE NOT GOING BACKBy Addie Scharff