In this episode, I unpack a real-time example of performative allyship gone completely off the rails—courtesy of content creator Camp Call Out (Mercedes Chandler), who spiraled on Threads and revealed exactly why proximity to marginalized people does not equal solidarity.In just 48 hours, she went from “down to clown” to just getting clowned—asking for education while ignoring the very people who had been offering it all along. Spoiler: follower count doesn’t grant you access to our safe spaces.I break down what it really means to be in community with Black women and why doing the inner work—not centering your ego, your clout, or your entitlement—is non-negotiable in the work of decolonization.This isn’t just about one creator. It’s about a pattern. And it’s time we name it.Support This podcast: Me a Coffee: buymeacoffee.com/siobhanspeaVenmo: @siobhanbons Zelle: [email protected] Cash app : $siobhanbons #PerformativeAllyship #DecolonizeNow #BlackWomenSpeak #CallOutCulture #SafeSpaces #ThreadsDrama #CampCallOut #AccountabilityCulture #AllyshipFails #SiobhanSpeaksSocial