I’m kicking off this episode by talking about dating apps. I talk about the shame that revolves around dating and dating apps, as well as, some of my experiences on the apps. And then I deep dive into the unrealistic expectations and vision of the perfect partner I created when putting together my list for my future partner. I touch on why this list was coming from a wounded place, and then go into why I’m scrapping the list and focusing on finding someone that has a growth mindset.

 

I also talk about:

• How my extensive list was protecting myself from potential hurt
• How I’m projecting my perfectionism onto potential partners
• The difference between a fixed and growth mindset