In this episode of Relationships and Reason, we’re diving into a powerful truth: your partner is a resource, not a project. So many of us enter relationships thinking we’re helping, when in reality, we’re trying to fix, mold, or manage someone into who we think they should be. But real love doesn’t treat people like projects—it honors who they are right now.
We’re unpacking how to shift from control to connection, how to stop trying to change people, and how to recognize the value your partner already brings to the table. Whether you’re dating, married, or preparing for love, this episode will help you build healthier, more grace-filled relationships rooted in partnership—not perfection.

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