Today I am joined by the vivacious Alexa Martinez. Alexa is a love, sex and relationship coach of The Violet Butterfly and runs the online community The Kaleidoscope. Alexa and I chat about all the things.

First, how does one actually become this kind of coach? Alexa takes us inside her journey and how her own struggles liberated her experience and lead her to her current work.

We discuss male/ female dynamics (especially when it comes to todays world), why communication is SO important (especially the way we do it), and well.. sex. Plus she answers your questions, such as:

How do women and men understand each other better?

What do I look for in a potential partner?

What does my partner wish I knew about him (especially when it comes to sex) ?

Porn and relationships…. good or bad?

Tune in to hear more.

Links Mentioned in the episode:

Alexa’s Community- The Kaleidoscope 

The Violet Butterfly

Sex at Dawn (book)