So here's the thing-if you're a human in a relationship with another human, there's going to be conflict.  Many people have a lot of fear surrounding conflict and what they assume it means about the relationship.  In this episode, we discuss why it's actually OK to fight, how to do it effectively, and what our own hangups and victories have been in this area.

 

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