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Ep 95: Are We Losing the Ability to Talk to Each Other?


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Does it seem like conversations have gotten harder?

Have you also noticed that people are interrupting each other more than ever?

In this episode of the Bite-Sized Brilliance Podcast, Dr. April Darley explores why modern attention spans are shrinking, how dopamine-driven tech rewires our brains, and the ripple effect it has on conversation, listening, and emotional intelligence.

From Gen X dinner tables to Gen Z social dynamics, April breaks down what’s really happening when someone constantly interrupts and how to correct it with confidence and compassion.

You’ll learn:

  • Why attention spans have plummeted from ~30 seconds to 5–7 seconds
  • The role dopamine plays in impatience, distraction, and talking over others
  • How tech and fast-paced content have reshaped communication habits
  • When interruptions come from excitement vs. ego vs. poor EQ
  • A simple, brilliant tool to pause and signal “I have something to say”
  • Practical, kind ways to set conversation boundaries in real time
  • How long-form dopamine (books, nature, real dialogue) retrains your brain
  • If you miss thoughtful, two-way conversation and want to become a better communicator, then this episode will help you reclaim the art of listening, speaking, and connecting deeply again.

    Want to retrain your brain for focus, calm, and connection? Learn more about the Bespoke Brain Program by scheduling a complimentary connection call at www.aprildarley.com

     

    🕒 Timestamps

    00:00 The art of conversation and the rise of interruptions

    01:00 Attention spans: from 30 seconds to ~5–7 seconds

    02:00 Dopamine, social media, and the hijacked brain

    03:00 Kids, screens, and behavioral changes

    04:00 Are people interrupting because they don’t care — or can’t focus?

    05:00 Social skills, EQ, and self-awareness check-ins

    06:00 The ✋ hand-raise trick (and why it works)

    07:00 Calling in — not calling out — interrupting behavior

    08:00 Setting conversational boundaries with grace

    09:00 Why conversation norms differ & how to express your “playbook”

    10:00 Personality, neurodivergence, and communication clues

    11:00 Self-awareness, connection, and personal growth

    12:00 The power of long-form dopamine for focus & calm

    13:00 Brain training + consultation invitation 

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    Bite-Sized BrillianceBy April Darley