EP216: Are You More Afraid Of Failure, Or Success?

Are you more afraid of failure, or success? What a loaded question. It's easy to believe that our minds are wired to want success. But in all actuality, the way that our minds are wired can be a leading factor that's holding us back.  In our lives, “the longer we have sat with thoughts of doubt, the more room we gave for doubt to feel familiar. So anything and everything else starts to feel threatening. The idea of being happy and successful starts to feel threatening because we're not used to it” - (Tallia) So how can you break free of these thoughts of doubt and fear?  How can you work on rewiring your thought process to allow your patterns and habits to form around healthy thoughts? In this episode, Tallia Dejou joins me to dissect the subconscious mental blocks that we have around fear of failure, so we can start peeling off our layers of learned fear, in order to step into our own power.    More About Tallia Deljou: Tallia Deljou is a positive psychology expert and life coach teaching people how to break through their own bullshit so they can find themselves and free their purpose. Here to help people wake up to the dreams written on their heart, she is committed to giving people the tools to self-coach and self-heal so they can lead more honest lives. She hosts the #7daysofdiscomfort challenge on Instagram to help people break through their biggest obstacles and shares insights on her Forbes' featured podcast, Sincerely Me. Whether through one-on-one coaching, group programs, or her personal development book club, she believes that we experience true meaning and purpose in connection with each other. You can connect with Tallia on her Instagram: Tallia Deljou   What We Talk About In This Episode: Four strategies to overcome fear  Why our brains are wired for negativity bias Mindset tricks to overcome fear Awareness with mental blocks Language and thoughts  Creating healthy habits The importance of serving your clients from a positive mindframe   Here’s How To Subscribe & Leave A Review (pretty-please): Want to get notified when I release new episodes so you don’t miss a thing? Click here to subscribe to the podcast on iTunes. It would mean the world to me if you’d leave a rating and review. I’d love to know what you think of the podcast and how I can make it better for you. Plus iTunes tells me that podcast reviews are really important and the more reviews the podcast has the easier it will be to get the podcast in front of more people, which is the ultimate goal. You can leave a review right here.   Let’s Keep The Conversation Going… Do you feel like you are stuck with a particular business idea, or are you fluid as things change? Have you been through a personal transformation that affected your business? I would love to hear all about it and I’m sure others would too. Comment below and share your story or visit me on Instagram which is currently my favourite way to connect.  You can also join my free online community to connect with more than 16,000 other health practitioners just like you to ask questions, share wins and struggles and get lots of support from me and my team! I hope to see you there. … did you know that we make a donation to a charity on behalf of every special guest that we have on The Business of Becoming? Today’s donation is going to the Kobe and Vanessa Bryant Family Foundation!