S6 Ep20: It Doesn't Have to Be That Way

The hoes chat about risk mitigation via quarantine pods and secksbuddies, unpacking ableism in your sex life, our good ol friend ethical non-monogamy, a reminder that you are not your trauma, some walks down memory lane, PLUS we fucked up ya’ll and we’re gonna address it and apologize.

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qY1oeeL7xrg

Fuck That (Currents Events): How global governments are (or aren’t) advising citizens on engaging in partnered sex during the pandemic. Plus we discuss the move by some folks to opt into Quaranteams, pods, and seksbuddies. And we talk about harm mitigation and risky ‘rona behavior. 

Fuck Me (Our Lives): What’s it like making 200 episodes of your fave podcast about sex, love and dating?! Find out here. 

Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener calls out our usage of language and ideas that are harmful to survivors and perpetuate rape culture. We read the letter, apologize and respond. 

Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week!

Hoe(s) of the Week: @ImSoLoveLee, Ajeeezy (AJeezy), Nikita (La fan Nikita), Philip (PhilipDelphia), Rhamah (Ray. Shout out to Ash!), Kristen (Bella), Shavauna (MonsterMash) 

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CONTENT WARNING(S)

Suicide Attempt 52:39 - 54:30

Harmful Language especially for survivors of assault: 1:12:42 -1:23:40

RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES

Slate Article: https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/05/why-i-decided-to-join-a-quarantine-bubble-and-you-should-too.html

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MUSIC

Love and light to the artists who have lent their music to the pod!  Our opening is a remix of “Queen S%!T” by SheReal (https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by) We also play “Party on the Weekend" by King Kam X DVRKAMBR, “Keeping it Cool Witchu” by Chhoti Maa, "Chandelier" Dramangar and “Yeah Yeah” wavghxst (https://twitter.com/wavghxst).

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