In this episode, the hosts interview Kevin Patterson, a polyamory educator and author. They discuss the concept of toxic monogamy and how it affects romantic relationships. Patterson discusses the need to divorce oneself from the idea of possessiveness in relationships, as well as the impact of racism and systematic oppression on the way people date and become intimate. He also addresses the idea that polyamory is exclusively for affluent people and aims to normalize this relationship structure.

[00:01:22] Toxic Monogamy. 
[00:04:52] Polyamorous relationships. 
[00:11:22] Race and polyamory. 
[00:11:39] Lack of diversity in events. 
[00:16:26] Examining our mindset. 
[00:19:05] Celebrity politics and societal progress. 
[00:23:23] Polyamory course and resources.


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EP260 Polyamory and Ending "Toxic Monogamy": A Conversation with Kevin Patterson

The pleasure positive podcast where badass women discuss everything from orgasms, to gender harmony, to the health benefits of masturbation. The Sex-Ed you wish you got... and then some. Living a pleasure positive lifestyle is possible with the help of your host's - Katie, Lindsey & Madison - who are communication & intimacy coaches, radio journalists & pleasure researchers who go out to try all the boundary-pushing sexcapades, confronting and disrupting their shame, then hop on the air to tell all the gritty details. They will try almost anything ONCE. Like getting pregnant at a sex party... #truestory. After 300+ episodes, get THE TOP sex tips, relationship advice and pleasure hacks from the sciency to the spiritual to get your needs met and tap into your turn on. Tune in and join our community as we normalize taboo conversations every Tuesday!

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Join us as we delve into the controversial topic of unsolicited dick pics. From discussing consent to exploring the age-old question of whether size matters, this episode promises to be both educational and entertaining. Get ready to laugh and learn as we share tips on how to handle unwanted dick pics and share hilarious stories on the subject. Lindsey's hubby, Mr. Marsh, joins us to represent the world of dicks and adds a unique perspective to the conversation. Tune in for an eye-opening and humorous discussion on the world of dick pics and consent.

[00:01:06] Unsolicited dick pic etiquette.
[00:06:29] Unsolicited dick pics issue.
[00:07:52] Unwanted dick pic reactions.
[00:12:47] Dick pic NFT extortion.
[00:16:13] Dick pic etiquette.

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EP309 The Fine Line Between Naughty and Nasty: Dick Pic Etiquette

Embark on a journey into the joyous realms of pleasure in this episode with Darshana Avala, a somatic sex and intimacy coach. Darshana  delves into the wisdom of masturbation and its importance in our lives. Join the conversation as Darshana explores how self-pleasure can lead to erotic wholeness and be as sacred as radical activism. Tune in to uncover the transformative power of embracing pleasure as a fundamental part of well-being.

[00:01:38] The wisdom of masturbation.
[00:04:49] Masturbation for emotional processing.
[00:08:37] Embracing our wholeness.
[00:12:31] Masturbation and quality vs. quantity.
[00:16:27] Exploring Clitoral Anatomy.
[00:20:30] Exploring erogenous zones.
[00:26:22] Masturbation and self-exploration.
[00:31:16] Different kinds of orgasms.
[00:34:27] Cervical stimulation wands.
[00:38:47] Female group masturbation circles.
[00:41:24] Masturbation's Healing Power

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EP308 The Wisdom of Masturbation: A Journey into Erotic Wholeness with Somatic Sex Coach Darshana Avila

Get ready to embrace pleasure resilience as we delve into the world of dominatrix roleplay. Join the journey of stepping into the fierce and fabulous dominatrix persona, exploring power dynamics, and celebrating pleasure as a fundamental part of well-being. It's time to unleash your inner power, embrace the extraordinary, and make pleasure your playground. Tune in to discover where you fall on the dominatrix spectrum.

[00:01:30] Dominatrix roleplay and pleasure resilience.
[00:04:48] Dominatrix roleplay exploration.
[00:09:28] Being a lifestyle dom.
[00:14:27] Establishing BDSM boundaries.
[00:18:08] Sensual domination dynamics.
[00:19:38] Creating polarity in relationships.
[00:24:45] Creating a character.
[00:28:09] The importance of aftercare.
[00:32:20] Creating aftercare menu.
[00:33:44] Dominatrix roleplay and sensual doming.

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EP307 Unleashing Your Inner Dominatrix: Create Polarity through Dominatrix Roleplay

Cuckolding and hot-wifing, that's right Cliterati... this is a juicy one. We've brought one of the pioneers on the subject matter, Dr. David J. Ley, a renowned clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist supervisor. Known for his expertise in modern sexuality, Dr. Ley has appeared on TV shows like Anderson Cooper and Dr. Phil, as well as in publications like the New York Times, Hustler magazine, and Playboy. Tune in to hear about his experiences and insights into pleasure, intimacy, and more.

[00:03:27] Cuckolding and hot-wifing.
[00:06:34] Cuckolding and non-monogamous relationships.
[00:09:27] Cuckolding explained through history.
[00:14:58] Stag vixen and hot-wifing.
[00:16:34] Evolution of non-monogamous relationships.
[00:22:59] Non-monogamy and secure attachment.
[00:26:28] Embracing sexuality in relationships.
[00:29:15] Taboo around bisexuality in cuckolding.
[00:32:52] Exploring cuckolding and insights.
[00:38:46] Disrupting shame and fear.

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EP306 A Deep Dive into Cuckolding and Hot-Wifing with Dr. David Ley

Join relationship therapist and sex expert Todd Creager as he shares insights on reigniting passion and maintaining a sizzling connection in long-term relationships. With over 40 years of experience, Todd discusses overcoming infidelity, trauma healing, and the importance of a healthy sex life as a key to thriving in tough times. Discover valuable tips on addressing mismatched desires and keeping the spark alive in your relationship.

[00:03:27] Reigniting passion in long-term relationships.
[00:06:03] Understanding sexual accelerators and brakes.
[00:10:00] Body image and trauma response.
[00:13:10] Overcoming sexual performance anxiety.
[00:15:31] Understanding changes in sexual desire.
[00:21:39] Expanding definition of foreplay.
[00:25:49] Maintaining passion in relationships.
[00:29:12] Hormones and relationship dynamics.
[00:34:01] Rethinking masculinity and vulnerability.
[00:37:17] Parts and trauma in relationships.
[00:40:30] Resilience in relationships.
[00:44:16] A memorable bubble bath experience.
[00:46:39] Healing Infidelity from the Inside Out.

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EP260 Polyamory and Ending "Toxic Monogamy": A Conversation with Kevin Patterson

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