Finding the right partner and having a great relationship seems like a big mountain to climb. Especially for women in midlife, who have been through their own share of bad dates or relationships, who now approach dating with caution and reserve and who are not settling for anything but the best.

We talked about finding the right partner and what do men and women really look for. And also about keeping the spark alive in the relationship and how to grow together. Scot created a mantra "Deserve what you want." to emphasize the importance of being the kind of person who will attract the right match. He also says relationships shouldn't be hard work