What does virginity really mean — and who decided it should define us?

In this episode of No Wonder, we unpack one of the most persistent myths in history: the social, cultural, and religious obsession with virginity. From the “purity” narrative imposed on women to the shame that still surrounds sexuality, this conversation explores how an idea built on control became a cornerstone of patriarchy.

We explore:

• The origins of the virginity myth and its ties to patriarchy

• How purity culture still shapes modern relationships and body image

• Why virginity testing and “first time” stories reinforce gender inequality

• The double standards around sexual freedom and shame

• What reclaiming your sexual narrative really means

Whether you grew up fearing “losing it” or questioning why it mattered at all, this episode invites you to rethink everything you were taught about virginity — and what liberation truly looks like.

✨ No Wonder is a podcast about the hidden structures that shape our lives — patriarchy, gender, work, and power — told through raw, intelligent conversations that make you feel less alone.

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