Matt Roth, a stepdad of two from Rochester, New York, will discuss how he adjusted to becoming a stepfather and developed a mutually beneficial relationship with his stepkids. He’ll discuss how his own experiences growing up with a stepdad influenced how he interacts with his stepkids.

Finally, Matt will share his philosophy on molding his kids by providing the guidance, love and support they need.

POINT #1: Your Background Can Influence Your Behavior

* Matt was raised by his mom and his stepfather and had a difficult upbringing; his biological father was not around during his childhood.

* Matt said he often felt like an outcast growing up and got into trouble as a result.

* He said his early life experiences “gave him a template for what NOT to do” with his own children.

* Matt is very careful not to introduce emotions such as fear and guilt into his children’s lives.

POINT #2: Structure a