Smart, Fabulous & Single with Dr. Trish

Ep.08 Ask the Expert: 'Me-ology Theology: Root Causes & Recovery'

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Today I’m speaking with our expert about this week’s topic. It’s practical. It hits all the hard places, and offers tips and solutions to help us move to the next level.

Episode Summary


Pastor Tania explains what Me-ology Theology is and helps us in a practical and down to earth way to recognize it in our everyday interactions i.e. some of those the selfish habits we pick up when we are single. She also describes the triggers and root causes, which for many can be rooted in trauma. She admits that Me-ology Theology is all around us, particularly, in our culture as everything around us  sells the idea of being centered on self and self-preservation.

Key Takeaways

  • Look at the soul, because as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he (7:17)
  • Unresolved wounds and hurts and unforgiveness is a major root cause (8:32)
  • Sometimes we create a theology by the way we respond to people and situations (9:38)
  • We ought to be pleasing God, not ourselves (16:00)
  • Me-ology Theology hurts the team because it focuses on 'I' (22:46)
  • It has to be that God is the source, and the only one who can fulfill you (24:23)

    • Top Quotes

    • Selfishness rather has a way of finding single people because when you're single you think about you (3:55)
    • The  wounds that would have been put on you. The things that you have been  picked up through a boyfriend here. The friends that betrayed you and  cause you to go, I protect myself (8:47)
    • If you're not careful, you become an idol to yourself (9:55)
    • The  law of of receiving is that you must give in order to receive. Me-ology  says you keep everything you, let it be about you do what pleases you  (15:49)
    • The enemy of marriage is selfishness (16:28)
    • When you and God are in alignment, he's gonna deal with your theology (24:31)

      • Resources

      • Pastor Tania's blog on Me-ology Theology
      • Pastor Tania's book, Wife Material
      • A book on relationships by Pastor Mike Todd - Relationship Goals 

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