In Part 2 of this thought-provoking and intimate conversation, I continue my talk with Kyle Manning, an expat teacher living in Japan, as we dive deep into the emotional and practical realities behind one of the biggest questions in language learning: Does perfect grammar really define fluency?

Together, we explore the hidden pressure students often feel in grammar-heavy learning environments, the fear of making mistakes, and the cultural influences that shape how people see language competence. Kyle shares real stories from his classroom in Japan, where students often hesitate to speak—not because they lack ideas, but because they fear being “wrong.”

We also reflect on the power of communication, the value of being understood even when grammar isn’t perfect, and how breaking free from perfectionism can lead to more authentic, powerful conversations. This episode is both a gentle embrace and a bold challenge to every learner, reminding them that their voice is valid, their accent is beautiful, and fluency is so much more than flawless grammar.

If you’ve ever doubted yourself because of a mistake… this episode is for you.