Sometimes if feels like because we are supposedly ‘in the same boat’ as someone else that we all should automatically go through the same struggles or experience the same set of problems the same way. But that’s not always the case, in fact more often than not there will be slight to major differences to two people experiencing the same thing. Doesn’t mean we should envy them. I’ve learnt to be grateful in the differences there are somethings others face in the same situation that you might not have too!