My 12th wedding anniversary is Sunday, something I'm very proud of, probably because I never thought would be married to anyone more less.for 12 years, but that's the difference between me and your average male, I love my marriage, I'm glad to have it, and glad I did it with a woman that equally loves and respects me. If you have even a hair of mistrust for your spouse, then your marriage is already done. Commitment is a bad word to some people, because there's way too much going on to be with just one person, what's the fun in that?