MOURNING, we all have done it, and some of us are still doing it. My late mother mourned my late uncle for 20 years, all the way until her passing. It's depends on the person, how close you was to them,etc.....but when death happens suddenly? You're mind can't cope with it because it came by surprise. I only say REST IN PEACE because it's respectful, but I've gotten into the habit of say UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN, cause we all will see our love ones again, someday.... [email protected]