Public discourse around gender, primarily heter0normative views of gender, can be one of the most hostile places on the Interent. Comparison, blame and trust issues have become the standard in these battles for the upper-hand. But is there really an upper-hand to be gained? Can men and women ever reach a place of respect and understanding; if so, how do we get there?References:

• bell hooks, 'The Will to Change'

• Brandon Taylor's Substack 'Sweater Weather' - issue titled "bro, where's my marriage plot?"