Check it out, this not that. This is the right thing and that thing over there, you are wasting time with and it is not it. How do you like that nice and easy. You let critics tell you what is goes were and how, but you wont let them tell you how to live your life, right? It is all about how you see yourself at the end of the day. How would you critique yourself? Are you becoming the hero of your own movie and all that good stuff?