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EP29: How To Be A Mindful Parent with Sarah Napthali


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Mindfulness is about learning to be ‘present in the moment’. For me that happens when I catch a wave surfing – my mind doesn’t have all the regular background noise such as, "I have to do this and I have to do that" or "Why is she angry with me" etc, etc. Looking up at the clouds or watching my son play can also take methere. The flip side is driving somewhere and arriving at your destination and not being able to recall anything about the drive – some people refer to this as mindlessness!! And it happens to me often. My mind will be so busy that I didn’t notice any of the journey; the buildings or trees I passed or worryingly the pedestrians and cars!

For most of us, how to be a mindful parent whilst trying to do all the other tasks we need to accomplish in our day can seem like another overwhelm in our life. But as ‘Buddhism for Mothers’ author Sarah Napthali explains in this episode of TheEdtalks, it doesn’t have to be an overwhelm at all.

I really love that Sarah’s approach is refreshingly honest and free from any preaching, acknowledging that you will have cranky days and unforeseen emergencies that challenge the most blissed out of meditators. The aim though is to try. She shares small easy steps we can take each day to be mindful and describes how that will enrich your life and that of your children and partner.

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In this episode you’ll discover:
  • Sarah's definition of Buddhism
  • What is Mindfulness and how can it help us
  • A simple approach to better deal with household flare ups
  • How to stop comparing yourself to others
  • How to rise above our anger
  • Simple ways for fitting meditation into your life
  • An easy approach for resolving problems and exploitation
  • How to bring love back into busy parents' lives
  • 3 stress free ways to build Buddhism into your busy life
  • How close Sarah is to enlightenment - trust me, this will be refreshing news for you!
  • Items mentioned in this episode include:
    Please note that some of the links below are affiliate links which help me pay the bills for The Ed Talks at no extra cost to you.
    • Buddhism for Mothers by Sarah Naphtali (Amazon link)
    • Buddhism for Couples by Sarah Naphtali (Amazon link)
    • Ending the Pursuit of Happiness by Barry Magid (Amazon link)
    • 10% Happier by Dan Harris (Amazon link)
    • Audible Free Trial for TheEdTalks listeners!
    • Additional Resources Recommended by Sarah:
      • A short talk on self-compassion by Kristin Neff
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        • Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff (Amazon link)
        • Dharma talks by many great teachers
        • Rob Burbea - One of Sarah's favourite Dharma teachers
        • Waking Up by Sam Harris (Amazon link)
        • The Heart of Buddhism by Guy Claxton (Amazon link)
        • Everyday Blessings: The inner work of mindful parenting by Jon and Myla Kabat Zin (Amazon link)
        • Quote of the day:

          Don’t worry about mistakes. There are none.

          Music:

          Intro song “Lagos 2030 AD” by Otis McDonald
          Outro song “Song in Sea” by Aquaman's Lab

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