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Ep.30 Producer's Pick: From Me-ology to Marriage-ology (Me-ology Part 2)

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Episode Summary

Today's episode is Part 2 of an episode on Me-ology Theology with Pastor Tania Case. One of my listeners (who chose to remain anonymous) asked, "how do I move from being me-focused to marriage ready?". That is, from Me-ology Theology to Marriage-ology. She was eager to hear and suggested that we do part 2 of Me-ology Theology today. So here are Pastor Tania's tips on how to move from being too me-focused and me-centered as single women to becoming marriage material. 

Key Takeaways

  • Find a healthy marriage that you respect and are encouraged by and honor it (1:45)
  • Become a helper to others, a listening ear, serve others (3:05)
  • Choosing to not communicate because you're angry kills marriages (5:20)
  • Often  times we find that we have a problem trusting God if we are very  selfish because we aren't sure that He will take care of us (8:34)
  • Let your guard down. Let yourself be loved and love others (9:47)

    • Top Quotes

    • Giving is contrary to selfishness and (you should) give of yourself in a way that you know you're challenged (3:32)
    • We  are so used to our ideology...but...if we allow these these walls  rather, to start coming down...you'll start getting a check, I need to  work on that right there (4:53)
    • Start  tasting your words. Start considering how they impact others and say  no, I would not want that for myself, so I don't want it for you (6:37)
    • You're  the one with the power to release people to their destiny. And if you  think just you, you will never experience having someone come back to  you and say, You are the place where this started in my life (9:29)
    • I  am a student of my husband. I am a student of my friends. I study them,  I get a picture. I keep a file a mental file on them. I know where you  should be. I know what you're after (15:05)
    • It is just the most wonderful thing that we could ever do for others is to love them and not love them for a moment (15:48)

      • Resources

      • Me-ology & Me-ology II
      • Wife Material
      • Relationship Quality Questionnaire
      • Scriptures: Ephesians 4:26

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