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In episode 39 of the Better Relationships Podcast, Dr. Dar Hawks, The Relationship Healer, explores the nuanced topic of relationship breaks and their potential impact on a couple's dynamic. Through a personal anecdote and expert insights, Dr. Dar delves into the seven stages of relationships and how breaks can either be beneficial or detrimental depending on the relationship stage you resonate with and your life circumstances.

Dr. Dar begins by recounting a poignant personal story about a past relationship, setting the stage for a comprehensive discussion on the complexities of taking breaks. She introduces the seven stages of relationships: the Googly Eyes stage, the Adapting stage, the Bickering stage, the Stability stage, the Collaboration stage, the Reconnection stage, and the Complimentary stage. Each stage is examined to highlight how breaks can serve as either a self-care strategy or a potential risk to the relationship.

Listeners are guided to assess their own relationships, considering factors such as the length of time together, life experiences, and willingness to seek professional support. Dr. Dar emphasizes the importance of clear communication, mutual agreements, and understanding individual needs when contemplating a break.

The episode also introduces the Five Sovereign Relationship Needs—Love and Belonging, Freedom, Fun, Power, and Safety and Survival—and how these needs influence the perception and impact of taking a break. Dr. Dar provides practical advice on how to communicate

Welcome to The Better Relationships Podcast with Dr. Dar Hawks, your guide to building stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Each episode dives into Dr. Dar’s proven Relationship Success Framework, offering practical strategies to help you express your needs, handle difficult conversations, and nurture emotional harmony in all your relationships. Ready to understand yourself and your loved ones better? Take the free Primary Relationship Needs Quiz at needs.drdarhawks.com and start your jou

Did you know? Taking the Primary Relationship Needs Quiz doesn’t just give you insight—it also grants you free access to Dr. Dar’s Relationship Education Video Series and the Better Relationships Community. Inside, you’ll find monthly live events, grounded relationship guidance, and exclusive coaching rates—everything designed to help you feel supported and empowered in your relationships. Visit needs.drdarhawks.com to join our community today!

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