Quote: "Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world". 

- Lucille Ball - was an American actress, comedian, model, studio executive, and producer.

👨‍🎓👨‍🎓 When I entered and developed a career in computer sciences back in 1998, the first thing I learned was programming languages, hence, I learned logic. Logic generally means the systematic study o valid inference. Each "argument" in a line of code must agree with the next in order to move forward. 

What I didn't know is that learning logic does not make a person rational. Rationality in lame words means to conform with one's reason to believe. To determine if one's behavior is rational, one needs to make several assumptions the problem. Basically dispute whatever is on your mind to come to a positive solution.

Well I was totally into being dysfunctional about my reality and completely irrational. Not by choice mind you, simply because that's exactly how we are taught to be in life since our pre-pube days. The key to changing a fixed mindset is by believing you can change with a growth mindset.

John Bradshaw, a family-systems therapy advocate and family dynamics expert, cites research found 96 percent of all families to be to some degree 'dysfunctional' that is, the system by which the family interacts is distorted by the addictions and compulsions of one or more members.

How cool is that to know that you are not UNIQUE to this reality?