At the end of the day you know how much work you’ve put into that day or week. Sometimes people may not see that or understand but only see the times you are relaxing and take it as you are lazy or have nothing better to do. Sometimes you not doing anything is as a result of being over worked but feeling like if you relax people will view you as someone who isn’t driven. So you find yourself in the mindset of need to relax because I’m drained but I’m too tense to enjoy it. I’m here to say (although easier said than done) don’t allow what other people think to dictate how you live.