Here's The Thing: A Beginner's Guide to Adulting

Ep.52 Settling Vs. Success


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This month, we’ve been talking a lot about goals—why we have them, what gets in the way, and how to stop feeling like we’re behind.

In this final episode of January, I want to talk about something that comes up for all of us when we start thinking seriously about our future: the difference between settling and success.


We hear “don’t settle” all the time, but settling isn’t always bad. Some parts of your life actually need to be stable, comfortable, and predictable so other parts can grow. The problem isn’t settling—it’s settling without choosing it.


In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why settling and success aren’t opposites
  • How comfort can quietly keep us stuck
  • The difference between intentional growth and unconscious settling
  • Why success doesn’t just happen—it’s built on purpose
  • How to choose one area of your life to challenge without burning out


If you’ve been feeling stuck, conflicted, or unsure whether you’re protecting your peace or avoiding growth, this episode will help you slow down, reflect, and make a more intentional choice.


There’s no shame in comfort—and there’s no success without discomfort. You get to decide where each one belongs.


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Here's The Thing: A Beginner's Guide to AdultingBy Wendy Kimber