This, sort of, conflict that exists between men & women today concerning the dating world has gotten out of hand. It really is becoming like walking barefoot through a field of porcupines. Neither one of us are listening to each other and we've become the op to one another. Folks are trying to rebrand marriage to be something else; a lot of us are in a place of "why even bother" right? At The Patio, we're right here in the field with you. What we gotta do though is sprinkle our special blend of herbs & spices on the situation. It's time we cut through all the tension and let it bleed out so that we can get down to what's real. Today is Part one... Part two; we'll deal with that another day. So get comfortable; relax & enjoy.