Ephesians: Things Money Can’t BuyEphesians 6:1-4: Kids, for DummiesJanuary 20, 2013Please turn in your Bibles to Ephesians 6:Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ… Ephesians 5:21Why are we so afraid of this business of submitting?1.There is a lack of trust rooted in very real fear (ref. Genesis 2:18)“Helper”: suggests the idea of completing the other rather than being subordinate to App: Celebrate: it’s as male and female together that we best reflect God’s glory (Ref. Genesis 1:27)2.There is a very real refusal to submit even to God.(ref. Gen. 2:16-17, Eph. 5:18)App: The Spirit-Filled Life is the surrendered life.Ephesians 6:1-3: The Blessing of Honoring (ref. Deuteronomy 21:18-21)The promise to “enjoy a long life” doesn’t suggest that a child who died must have been disobedient, but… 1.…when a child is about honoring his parents, he will avoid much of the sin and madness that could threaten his life2.…that child’s life will be enriched and therefore increase his chance of health and welfare 4Reasons for Honoring1.Do it because you’re a Christ-follower (Vs 1: “In the Lord”) 2.Do it because it’s commanded (Vs 2) 3.Do it because God promises your chances of living more fully(Vs 3a)4.Do it because God promises your chances of living (3b)App: Regardless of age, agree with God about how well you have honored. Vs 4: Exasperating or InvestingThese commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. 7Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Deuteronomy 6:6-7God honoring parenting flows from Relation: The best way to help your child to thrive is to make them feel loved.Air: If the air is so thick it feels like you can cut it with a knife, then change it.Foundations: What kind of foundation are you giving your kids to build their lives upon? What is God’s Spirit speaking into your life today? How must you respond?