NUGGET

A peaceful and happy home is built on spiritual growth, grace, compromise, and financial wisdom. Perfect love removes fear, but maturity sustains marriage.

Proverbs 15:17; 17:1 – A home filled with peace and love is better than one filled with luxury and strife. A spiritual partner promotes peace.

To truly enjoy your marriage or relationship, you must dwell in God’s Word, grow spiritually together, and allow love to remove fear.

Genesis 2:23 – Your spouse may be gifted, anointed, intelligent, and prayerful but still human. Do not expect perfection.

Ephesians 5:33 – Husbands are instructed to love their wives deeply. Forgiveness should be constant in marriage.

Do not stay apart for too long. Do not restrict your spouse’s healthy associations. Learn to be gracious because humans are bound to make mistakes.

1 Corinthians 13:5 – Love is not rude, not easily provoked, and does not keep records of wrongs.

Philippians 2:4 – Consider your partner’s needs, not just your own.

A peaceful home requires compromise. Insisting on your own way breeds conflict. Compromise should move the marriage forward.

Proverbs 24:27 – Prepare your work outside before building your house.

Ecclesiastes 10:19 – Money plays a vital role in sustaining responsibilities.

· Provides comfort throughout life.

· Gives you options.

· Enables contribution.

· Helps you leave an inheritance for your children.

· Helps you take advantage of economic opportunities.

· Pray for God’s blessing – 1 Chronicles 4:10.

· Avoid wastefulness – Proverbs 21:20.

· Develop financial literacy.

· Be disciplined.

· Be generous.

· Be willing to take wise risks. Profit is often a reward for risk.

A happy home does not happen by accident. It is built intentionally through spiritual maturity, grace and forgiveness, compromise, and financial wisdom.

SUMMARY OF TODAY’S SERVICE1. Build a Spiritual Foundation2. Accept Your Spouse’s Humanity3. Learn the Power of Compromise4. Develop Your Finances as a CoupleFive Things Money Will Do in Marriage:Pastor Tee’s Financial Advice:

Text: Proverbs 15:17, Proverbs 17:1

Tips to an Effective Relationship

1. You must be a spiritual persons. 1 Corinthians 7:28, Matthew 7:25

2. You must realize that your partner is human being. Genesis 2:18-21, 1 Corinthians 15:33

What to do when you know your partner is human being

i. You must be gracious to your partner. Ephesians 5:25 (TPT)

3. Learn to compromise peace

Text: Proverbs 15:17

A joyful and peaceful home is not built on material abundance but on the foundation of love, spirituality, and a strong heart. When God is at the center of a relationship, fear, strife, and heaviness lose their place. True love flows from God, and when couples grow spiritually, they gain strength to overcome inevitable challenges.

 Love must be triangular — God first, then you and your spouse. Focusing more on God than on each other sustains joy, quietness, and stability in the home.

Summary of the Message

1. Love Creates Joy, Not Luxury

Proverbs 15:17 teaches that a simple meal with love is better than abundance with hatred. A home filled with love produces joy and quietness regardless of financial or material status.

2. Perfect Love Casts Out Fear

When God’s love governs a relationship, fear, insecurity, and anxiety are driven out. Couples who walk in divine love experience emotional safety and peace.

3. Spirituality Is Key in Relationships

You must be spiritual in your love life and marriage.

• Spiritual couples pray together.

• They trust God through seasons.

• They handle conflicts with wisdom.

Note: Challenges will surely arise in relationships and marriages — spirituality is what sustains hope during those seasons.

4. A Strong Heart Builds a Good Home

Proverbs 18:14 — A strong spirit sustains a person in times of trouble.

To have a good home:

• Develop emotional strength.

• Guard your heart against bitterness.

• Stay spiritually encouraged.

Life is beyond the physical — it is spiritual.

5. Focus on God, Not Just Each Other

Love is triangular:

God → You → Your Spouse

When couples focus only on each other, expectations create pressure. When they focus on God, He supplies grace, patience, and understanding.

Reflection Question

How spiritual are you in your relationship and marriage?

Your level of spirituality determines:

• Your endurance in trials

• Your hope in difficult seasons

• The joy and quietness in your home

Closing Charge

To enjoy a house full of joy and quietness:

• Grow spiritually

• Strengthen your heart

• Keep God at the center

• Let love lead your home

Texts: Genesis 1:28, John 15:5, Mark 4:3, 4:20, 4:27

MESSAGE SUMMARYGod’s mandate for us in 2026 is Great Fruitfulness (Genesis 1:28). However, fruitfulness is not automatic — it isdetermined by how we receive and engage the Word of God (John 15:5).Using the Parable of the Sower (Mark 4), we understand that:• The Seed represents the Word of God.• The Earth/Soil represents the Heart of Man.Therefore, the condition of your heart determines your harvest and your miracles (Proverbs 4:23).The root signifies spiritual strength, stability, and depth of understanding (Matthew 13:18).THE FOUR TYPES OF HEARTS1. The Wayside Heart (2 Corinthians 4:4, Hebrews 3:15)A distracted and hardened heart where the Word is easily stolen.Instruction: Receive the Word with meekness (James 1:21, Matthew 7:27).2. The Stony Heart (Matthew 13:21, 1 Peter 1:6, Hebrews 10:36)Receives the Word with joy but falls away when trials come.Trials test your depth. Declare: “The devil has no power over me.”3. The Thorny Heart (Matthew 13:22, 1 John 2:15)Receives the Word but is choked by worldly cares.Too busy for God’s Word and prayers.You cannot serve God and the world. Prioritize your relationship with God.4. The Good Ground Heart (Matthew 13:23, James 1:22, Colossians 1:10)Receives, understands, and practices the Word.Produces abundant fruitfulness.KEY NUGGETS• Your miracle is determined by the condition of your heart.• Guard your heart diligently (Proverbs 4:23).• Trials must not disconnect you from God.• Busyness must not replace spirituality.• Fruitfulness flows from engaging God’s Word.FINAL CHARGEIf you must be fruitful in 2026:• Go back to God’s Word.• Engage deeply with Scripture.• Pray consistently.• Evaluate your heart daily.Great Fruitfulness is guaranteed when the Word finds a good ground in you.

Text: Genesis 1:27-28, John 15:1-8

You have been pruned for greater fruitfulness

Whenever God gives instructions, He knows you have the capacity to do it.

Scripture for the month of February 2026

Proverbs 25:25 (Month of Goodnews)

See you next Sunday for another awesome time

Text: 1 Corinthians 5:6

Overcoming Depression

1. Get rid of selfishness

2. Leverage on what God has done for you

3. Humble yourself under the man of God

4. Casting all your care upon God for God care for you

5. Be sober (Have a clear mind about everything)

6. Look for your Titus (Titus is that person when the world is against you, he/she love you).

Text: Genesis 1:27-28

Be fruitful and have dominion over the face of the earth

Text: Genesis 1:27-28

What You Need To Do To Be Fruitful In Life

1. Develop Persuasion

2. Learn to resist the devil

Join us again next Sunday at 7:45AM

End of year 2025 Thanksgiving prayer

See you strongly and healthy next year 2026

Happy New Year 2026 in advance

Isaiah 9:6-7

Matthew 1:18-21

Significance of a Son

1. Governance/ Leadership

2. Prince of peace

Join us again next Sunday at 7:45AM for another awesome time in God presence.