I wanted to come on and speak freely, and let you all know that this year for the holidays...I'm choosing to be a BAD mom.

I didn't go all out. I just did my best. My family is happy and healthy and safe, and that's what matters to me.

I'm not letting the expectation of what the holidays "should" look like cause me stress.

If we're not connected on IG, follow me @ashley_spalding17

Thanks for being here mama! Happy Holidays!

Xo-Ash