This episode, we have boudoir photographer B (@shotsby___b) in studio with us to talk all things confidence and dating app photos. First, we talk current events: Jonah Hill. What's the line between "boundaries" and being "controlling"? Then, we dig into the mailbag and hear from a listener who wants to give her boyfriend a sexy surprise, while not wanting to feel silly in the process. We then talk the fine line between presenting yourself well and catfishing, and hear from another listener who wonders if she was the catfish. Rotating cohost this ep was returner, Annabelle Warren aka my sister aka @thefemalegothic