There is a difference between being "born to do something" and being "called to do something." You were born to be an incredible person who adds value to those around you, not someone who is defined by the people you love most, or the job you're most passionate about. It's so easy to lose ourselves in the lives of others. Many times our calling is seasonal, will shift and change...if we become defined by that, we'll lose ourselves and limit our ability to build the life that we want!