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The Intimacy Dance in Neurodiverse Relationships: Push, Pull, and the Power of Pause|Ep 013.mp3


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The Intimacy Dance in Neurodiverse Relationships: Push, Pull, and the Power of Pause


In this Therapy Insights Tuesday episode of Love on the Autism Spectrum, therapist and neurodivergent coach Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, explores the often-misunderstood dynamics of intimacy in neurodiverse relationships—especially the push-pull experience of wanting connection but needing space.


If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by closeness or unsure about how much space you need—or how to interpret your partner’s retreat—you’re not alone. Blaze unpacks this emotional tension through the lens of sensory needs, communication differences, nervous system regulation, and attachment patterns.


You’ll learn:

  • What drives the push-pull dynamic in neurodivergent couples
  • Why some individuals crave closeness one moment and withdraw the next
  • How to navigate these patterns with curiosity, compassion, and clarity

Whether you’re the one who pulls away or the one left feeling confused, this episode helps both partners understand what’s really going on beneath the surface. Blaze offers practical tools and trauma-informed strategies to create safety, respect, and deeper connection—without shame or blame.


Tune in for grounded guidance that honors your nervous system, your relationship needs, and your right to boundaries and closeness.


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📸 @BlazeLazarony


✨ Come for the real talk. Stay for the support. You’re not alone here.



**This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for mental health care. Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT, is a licensed therapist in California, but this content does not constitute a therapeutic relationship. For personalized support, consult a qualified professional. If you're in crisis, call 988 or seek local emergency services.**

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Love on the Autism Spectrum - Honest Guidance for Neurodivergent Relationships & Emotional HealingBy Barbara (Blaze) Lazarony, LMFT