When our friends are hurting we often respond in unhelpful ways, like simply saying "everything happens for a reason" or offering unsolicited advice. Want to know a better way to support friends who are going through difficult times? In this episode we outline how to NOT respond your friend’s suffering and offer a simple guide for a better way.

Look at the story of Jesus and Lazarus' death as an example: Jesus didn't try to minimize Lazarus' death or offer empty platitudes. He wept with them, showing compassion and sharing their grief.