A relationship is the outcome of the two individuals in it. If there is something that either person doesn’t like about the relationship, they need to understand how their combined contribution, especially their own, is enabling or sustaining the problem that they would like to resolve.

Only then do we have a chance to effectively work through the problem without creating new problems in the process.

Understanding what you’re paying forward from your past experiences will give you an awareness that can truly transform the quality of your relationships with your significant others.

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