In this episode, Lanikai explores practical ways to steward your sexuality and maintain abstinence, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, heart posture, and seeking God's guidance. She shares personal insights, biblical principles, and actionable tips for living a Christ-centered life of purity.

Key Topics

The biblical definition of abstinence versus celibacy

Practical boundaries to maintain abstinence

The importance of heart posture and motivation

Seeking God's guidance for personal boundaries

The role of wisdom versus permission in self-control

The significance of being equally yoked in relationships

Avoiding the trap of building boundaries around current seasons

The importance of Christlikeness over abstinence as a goal

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and episode overview

01:32 God's view of abstinence as stewardship

03:02 Difference between abstinence and celibacy

04:42 Practical steps to steward sexuality

06:46 Biblical basis for boundaries in sex

09:48 Personal boundaries and self-control

11:25 Avoiding the line: asking God for boundaries

13:32 Wisdom vs permission analogy

15:52 Dating someone not abstinent: what to consider

18:50 Being equally yoked in pursuit of abstinence

21:42 Goals: Christlikeness over abstinence

22:42 Summary of practical steps for abstinence

25:03 Final encouragement and seeking God

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