Walking Close, Living Changed

Episode 04: You Can't Make Them Believe


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Brian opens with a heartfelt reflection on how frustrating it can be when we want others—especially those we love—to experience the same transformation we've had through faith in Jesus. Using the metaphor of sharing a favorite song with someone who doesn't "get it," he explores how timing, openness, and free will affect someone's journey toward belief.

He walks through the story of the Apostle Paul, one of the most impactful evangelists in Scripture, and highlights that even Paul couldn't convince everyone. Some believed. Others didn't. Brian shares Paul's experience in Acts 28:24 as a freeing truth for believers today: "Some were convinced by what he said, but others would not believe." Even with miracles, cultural adaptation, and powerful testimony, people still chose not to believe—because belief is ultimately a choice.

Brian emphasizes that you are not the Holy Spirit, and that trying to take on that role will only lead to frustration. He encourages listeners to live their faith honestly and consistently, sow seeds, water hearts—but release the outcome to God. He reminds us that even Jesus experienced rejection, and that the win isn't in forcing belief but in faithfully continuing to love, speak truth, and "keep playing the song."

Key Topics Discussed:
  • The frustration of wanting others to believe in God when they don't

  • Why real belief can't be forced or faked—it's a matter of free will

  • Lessons from Paul's ministry efforts and evangelism strategies

  • The limits of apologetics and persuasive arguments

  • How to love and share your faith without trying to control others

  • The difference between sowing seeds and causing spiritual growth

  • Trusting the Holy Spirit to do what only He can do

Relevant Scriptures:
  • Acts 28:24 – "Some were convinced by what he said, but others would not believe."

  • 1 Corinthians 3:6–7 – "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow."

  • Matthew 11:16–17 – "We played the flute for you, and you did not dance…"

  • 1 Peter 3:1 – "…they may be won without a word by the conduct…" (implied in reference to believing spouses)

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Walking Close, Living ChangedBy Brian Opbroek