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Episode 05. Shedding the "Shoulds"
What happens when the life you were working toward suddenly doesn’t feel right?
In this episode, Erin unpacks the moment she realized she was chasing a roadmap she never chose - and how questioning the “shoulds” around marriage, kids, careers, bodies, and timelines changed everything. This is a conversation about unlearning expectations, redefining fulfillment, and giving yourself permission to evolve.
If you’ve ever felt behind, conflicted, or quietly wondering if there’s more - this one’s for you.
References mentioned:
Doyle, G. (2020). Untamed. The Dial Press. https://untamedbook.com/
New Heights Podcast, Jason Kelce and Travis Kelce, Taylor Swift on Reclaiming Her Masters, Wrapping the Eras Tour, and The Life of a Showgirl, Season 4, Episode 1, August 13, 2025, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2lX9XESvDE&t=2898s.
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By Erin LaneyWhat happens when the life you were working toward suddenly doesn’t feel right?
In this episode, Erin unpacks the moment she realized she was chasing a roadmap she never chose - and how questioning the “shoulds” around marriage, kids, careers, bodies, and timelines changed everything. This is a conversation about unlearning expectations, redefining fulfillment, and giving yourself permission to evolve.
If you’ve ever felt behind, conflicted, or quietly wondering if there’s more - this one’s for you.
References mentioned:
Doyle, G. (2020). Untamed. The Dial Press. https://untamedbook.com/
New Heights Podcast, Jason Kelce and Travis Kelce, Taylor Swift on Reclaiming Her Masters, Wrapping the Eras Tour, and The Life of a Showgirl, Season 4, Episode 1, August 13, 2025, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M2lX9XESvDE&t=2898s.