More Than A Type

Episode 05 – The Yes Trap: When Being Liked Costs Too Much


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Do you find yourself saying yes before you’ve even thought it through — only to regret it later?

In this episode of More Than a Type, hosts Amira Romanowski and Carol Edwin unpack the “Yes Trap” — the pattern so many women (especially those with an I-style in DISC) fall into when they crave connection and fear disappointing others.

Together, Amira and Carol explore:

  • Why saying yes feels good in the moment, but costly later.

  • How I-style women often get labelled as “flaky” — and why that isn’t the whole truth.

  • Real-life stories of women stretched too thin by automatic yeses.

  • The difference between unresourceful “yeses” and resourceful, intentional commitments.

  • Practical tools to pause, check reality, and choose a yes that’s aligned with your values.

💎 Because every time you say yes to someone else, you’re also saying no to something else. The power lies in choosing wisely.


Resources & Links from This Episode

  • Learn more about DISC: Amira Romanowski Consulting

  • Connect with Carol: Carol Edwin Coaching


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