Unless you actually want to be a penguin in a room full of seagulls, a flightless bird among other birds continually capitalizing on their ability to soar above the horizon, trying to fit in can be difficult and stressful. Some of that pressure, I venture to say a lot of it, ebbs once you accept who you are, and find your own place among all those seagulls, a place with a meaningful sense of self-worth.