In this very first episode of Surviving Parenthood, host Vida Carey opens up about her personal journey as a neurodivergent parent. Diagnosed later in life with ADHD and autism, Vida reflects on how these experiences shape her parenting—both the struggles and the victories.

She shares a vulnerable story about a difficult encounter with her children’s pediatrician that highlights the unique challenges neurodivergent parents often face. At the same time, she celebrates her children’s growth and reminds listeners of the importance of resilience, love, and community support.

This episode is both a candid look at the realities of parenting with neurodivergence and a hopeful reminder that every day is a fresh chance to try again.

Key Takeaways

• Parenting can be especially complex for neurodivergent individuals.
• A late ADHD or autism diagnosis often reshapes how parents understand themselves.
• Parenting “failures” can bring up shame—but also powerful lessons.
• Supportive community makes all the difference.
• Celebrating small wins helps keep momentum.
• Resilience and love matter more than perfection.
• Every day is an opportunity to begin again.

Memorable Sound Bites

• “Our stories matter too.”
• “I try to do all the things.”
• “Parenting is so hard.”

Episode Chapters

• 00:00 – Welcome to Surviving Parenthood
• 01:44 – Vida’s Story: ADHD + Autism Diagnosis
• 07:06 – Parenting Challenges & the “ADHD Tax”
• 15:28 – Celebrating Parenting Wins
• 19:40 – Lessons Learned & Moving Forward