First off, this is a loaded topic. And, what we say on this isn’t something that you should ever take as textbook; because it is going to be totally different for everyone. Truly, for this question there isn’t going to be a right or a wrong answer (aka-this isn’t Jeopardy and we didn’t memorize the dictionary). We will take it one letter at a time (and maybe add a few of our own along the way).