There are many factors for why men in the west are more unwilling than ever to commit to a long term relationship. Especially with the debaucherous behaviour that is being displayed constantly on a daily basis. Men have now become fearful in laying all their eggs in one basket. It's hard to find a woman that holds strong values in which you can rest easy at night knowing that your  girlfriend/wife is not going to go galavanting at a nightclub, girls trips, pubs or hanging out with her so called guy friends while you are at home floating the bill.