“You should be married by 30.”
“Don’t talk about money.”
“Thin = good.”
Sound familiar? This week, Cole and Meag are breaking down the invisible rulebook so many of us internalized growing up—and officially calling BS.

From career timelines and fertility fear-mongering to the “cool girl” commandments and the myth of adulting milestones, we’re unpacking the cultural scripts that shaped us… and how we’re finally rewriting them.

It’s a little cathartic, a little spicy, and deeply validating if you’ve ever asked: Wait, who decided this was the plan?

We get into:

• Why home ownership isn’t a moral achievement

• The quiet rebellion of talking about money with friends

• The generational shift away from hustle culture

• How friendships in your 30s might matter more than marriage

• And why being “too much” is actually just being yourself

If you’re in your 30s or 40s navigating your own rule-breaker era, this one’s for you.