Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start.

When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption.

Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation.

In the last episode, Christy discussed how to “Silence the Noise” of people who will judge and criticise you. In today’s episode, Christy discusses how you should choose to have “No Expectations” when dating. Learning how to date without preconceived notions will relieve the pressure on yourself and the other person, while allowing the relationship to take the course it’s meant to. It’s important to treat every new encounter as an opportunity in your life, not just for love.