In this episode, Shay and Meg discuss aftercare and how important it is in Ds relationships. However, they also ruminate on how "vanilla" relationships or relationships that don't actively participate in power exchange can and should also consider including aftercare in their relationship. They discuss how to talk about aftercare with your partner(s) and why it is necessary, remarking on how mindfulness is critical to developing relationships. They give examples of different types of aftercare (physical and emotional), who gives aftercare, what it looks like, and how aftercare changes depending on the mood, scene, and timing. Shay and Meg describe what types of aftercare they need from partners (committed partners vs play partners), providing important examples of what can happen when there is a lack of aftercare. Finally, they discuss how getting to know your sexual identity as sexual beings is important towards identifying what it is that you need and want before previewing future events.

Our first online workshop will take play June 12, 2021 and will involve working together and focusing on revealing and connecting to our identities as sexual and sensual beings! Join us to enjoy a discussion and activities around the topic of inner sexuality and exploring how being spiritually connected to your inner-self can open you up to a higher level of conscious connection to your sexual selves. Sales start May 24, 2021.