Living your life in Alignment with yourself is living a life with unconditional love for everybody and everything. It means that you don't need somebody or something to be happy in the first place. Most people they live their lives conditionally. If you do that then what that means is you actually need a conditions first to be happy. But that is actually creating by default. Because everything you manifest in life is by having a high vibration. But when you first need a condition to have a higher vibration you will be circling in a loop.