Before the BFP: A Fertility Podcast

Episode 11 – Three Chemicals, IVF, and a DQ Alpha Match with Chloe


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Chloe shares her journey through three chemical pregnancies, IVF, and the discovery of a rare DQ alpha gene match — and how she’s learned to advocate for herself along the way.


In this episode of Before the BFP, Hafsa talks with Chloe from Australia about her three-year journey to conceive, which includes multiple early losses, failed IVF transfers, and finally answers through reproductive immunology.

Chloe opens up about:

  • Experiencing three chemical pregnancies and being dismissed by doctors

  • Fighting for basic hormone and progesterone testing

  • The disappointment of unexplained infertility and how it fuels self-blame

  • Undergoing IVF, producing healthy embryos, but facing repeated failed transfers

  • The emotional impact of negative transfers and how they feel like a true loss

  • Receiving a diagnosis of microscopic endometriosis and high natural killer cells

  • Discovering she and her husband are a rare DQ alpha gene match and what that means for fertility

  • Navigating immune protocols, intralipids, steroids, and reproductive immunology

  • Coping with the physical and emotional toll of treatments — including weight gain, body image changes, and mental health struggles

  • Learning to shift mindset from aesthetics to strength and resilience

  • Why “just do IVF” is never that simple, and the need to stop minimizing this journey

Resources & Mentions:

  • Instagram: @trying.to.conceive.rainbow_

  • IVF Real Talk Podcast

  • What to Expect When You’re Injecting Podcast

  • Evidence Based IVF (University of Melbourne)

  • Support groups: IVF Support Group Australia + DQ Alpha Match Support Group

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