Millions of Americans have suffered serious losses over the last year, including the death of loved ones and the loss of jobs and finances. Related articles appear in the news and online, the losses and grief are real, and yet how often do people talk openly about their painful experiences? Peter shares how to relate to others in a genuine way, sincerely wanting to know how they're doing, giving them permission to express their grief. Sometimes, when grief is intense, people need to be able to say "not now." At other times, coming alongside as a fellow human being offering compassion from the heart, not posing or performing, can provide an meaningful opportunity for hope and healing.