Today’s guest is Blaine Anderson! 

Blaine is a dating coach for men. She specializes in helping guys build confidence, learn to authentically market themselves, and attract amazing partners fast. You can find her on Instagram at @datingbyblaine or her website datingbyblaine.com.

In this interview, we discuss:  

•  The 5 E's to Dating Success
• How to use technology to find people you want to date
• How to build systems in your life to meet the people you want in your life
• How you should view rejection
• Dating Red Flags
• How her masterclass could change your life and so much more! 

Here are some key points that I would advise you to concentrate on

• How has she noticed dating change over the last ten years?
• How technology has had a large impact on dating. 
• Has she noticed key problems that men worldwide have when it comes to dating?
• Men do not know how to market themselves, to communicate to others about what makes them great partners for women. 
• Stop selling yourself to women, stop seeking validation from them! 
• Passion is sexy! Women are attracted to you when you are being passionate about whatever you love! 
• Women want to join a fun life, not be your entire life 
• What are Blaine's key 5 E's to dating?
• What are signs that you need a dating coach
• Does pick-up work?
• Women notice when you are not being an authenticate person, and they can spot when you are not being true to yourself. 
• How do you build an attractive social life and build chances to meet new people?
• How do you overcome the fear of going out and trying new things to meet new people?
• It is ok to be nervous! If you want new experiences, you need to step out of your comfort zone! 
• Rejection is part of life! Being rejected by someone isn't a life or death situation, you have just found one person you are not connected to, and are closer to finding people that you will be connected with! 
• How can you build systems to meet women in your everyday life? 
• Stop pressurizing yourself with unrealistic expectations, remove the burden of asking for numbers etc - go in with the only goal of meeting new people.
• How can you rediscover your confidence and love yourself again after a divorce, pandemic etc?
• Why would you want to do what Clooney would do?!
• How to deal with social anxiety?
• Practise chatting and flirting with everyone in your life, so it is natural when it comes to actually speaking to the ones you wish to date and attract
• How do we switch the mindset of feeling nervous to approach someone to actually feeling excited about it?
• You are not going to be everyone's cup of tea, 98% of people will not be interested, but the 2% will change your life! 
• Blaine's fantastic advice for how to deal with rejection when you approach people! 
• How should we approach people? 
• How the situation affects how you should approach someone you are interested in?
• Why do you need to think of yourself as a prize and not just accept whoever is interested in you? 
• What are dating red flags that you need to watch out for 
• How do relationship dynamics change as we age in terms of what we want out of life and in our partners?
• You need to trust your gut on if they are right for you or not
• How can you gauge if someone is interested in your or not?
• How do we avoid putting someone on a pedestal and stop projecting futures with people when there isn't one
• How you should use technology to meet new people and obtain dates
• The 3 key things you need on your dating profile! 
• You need to be unique on your dating profile. You need to seem like a real person, an attractive, passionate person. 
• Women care far more on how you make them feel compared to how you look on whether the attraction is there ... or stays. 
• How do you keep the spark alive when in a relationship?
• How to learn from your past relationships.
• How can Blaine help you by coaching you. 
• Why you need to sign up for Blaine's Masterclass right now!